Love-hate

//ˌlʌvˈheɪt// adj, verb

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Definitions

Verb
  1. 1
    To feel both love and hate (for someone or something), often simultaneously. transitive

    "[…]Eric got to act out his resentment while also hating himself, really love-hating himself, and he got to do it while masquerading as a warrior for the less fortunate!"

Adjective
  1. 1
    Of a relationship: involving feelings of both love and hate, often simultaneously. not-comparable

    "The krogan have had a love-hate relationship with varren for millennia, alternately fighting them for territory and embracing them as treasured companions."

Example

More examples

"Freud developed the love-hate relationship between parents and child as the Oedipus complex."

Etymology

The adjective is a calque of German Liebe-Hass (now more commonly Hassliebe (“love-hate relationship”)), from Liebe (“love; relationship of love”) (ultimately from Proto-Indo-European *lewbʰ- (“to love”)) + Hass (“hate; hatred”) (ultimately from Proto-Indo-European *keh₂d- (“anger; hatred”)). The verb is derived from the adjective.

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