Heteropessimistic

For [C.K.] Louie, masturbation’s explicitness (its permanence as a fact of male heterosexuality) as well as its mediation (its dependence on controlling women as objects of desire) advance the heteropessimistic thesis that all male fantasies must compulsively mistreat women.

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To transcend the severe limitations (indeed, violent transphobia) of dissident feminism, as well as the heteropessimistic despair found in orthodox feminism, feminists must try – however cathartic and in one sense therapeutic it is – to resist the temptation to reinscribe the identity of ‘man’ at the expense of more politically productive feminist analysis.

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But as Ms. Montei suggests, the heteropessimistic spirit of the moment isn’t just about sex or dating.

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