Non-kinkster

Non-kinksters have held munches also, e.g. the rec.arts.bodyarts "munch" held recently in Philly.

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In the BDSM community it is called a Violet Wand but suince all the kinksters search for it under that name, and it is posted by non-kinksters as an "antique medical device" under Violet Ray almost as often, the VR prices tend to be tend to be a lot less for the same item.

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Understandably, non-kinksters often have trouble understanding these instances of sexually-motivated cognitive dissonance.

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> For some reason I felt, oh, how sweet when I read this one, which of course a non kinkster would just not understand at all... It even took me a minute.;-)

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