Unwifeliness

Say to him, that I thank him heartily, and that nothing has so contributed to my present Happiness as his constant, grave, though indirect Testimony against my past Unwifeliness, never seeming to see that Aught was amiss, and ever taking it, as it were, for granted, that I was what I ought to be, thus rendering me ashamed of myself.

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Her unwifeliness was astounding; it was so astounding that Louis did not all at once quite realize how dangerously he was wounded by it.

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I would suspect, however, that a Confucian leadership would find her unfiliality even more shocking than this unwifeliness.

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