Victim-blamey

“I think any sort of advice on how to have a safer Halloween based only on the costume is very victim-blamey,” Wozniak said.

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They tell me you can never let your guard down. Not for a single second. That you should expect every fellow citizen to be a sociopath. It isn’t exactly victim-blamey, but it feels gross.

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And that whole distinctly victim-blamey sentiment of "if you didn't want this to happen, you shouldn't have taken photos" is hard-wired into mainstream culture.

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