Words for Empathy Hub
Compassionate vocabulary for support messages, difficult conversations, and people leadership.
Choose language that communicates care without sounding vague or performative.
Validation
Acknowledge feelings directly.
understand
Uh-huh, I see; a way to acknowledge something said by the other speaker.
hear
you hear me
recognize
To match (something or someone which one currently perceives) to a memory of some previous encounter with the same person or thing.
appreciate
To be grateful or thankful for.
respect
hello, hi
validate
Valid, validated.
accept
Accepted.
acknowledge
To admit the knowledge of; to recognize as a fact or truth; to declare one's belief in.
Support
Offer practical help.
support
Something which supports.
assist
A helpful action or an act of giving.
help
A cry of distress or an urgent request for assistance.
partner
A surname.
stand by
To wait in expectation of some event; to be ready.
guide
A village in Blackburn with Darwen borough, Lancashire, England (OS grid ref SD7025).
accompany
To go with or attend as a companion or associate; to keep company with; to go along with.
care
A surname.
Repair and trust
Use after conflict or mistakes.
apologize
To make an apology or excuse; to acknowledge some fault or offense, with expression of regret for it, by way of amends
restore
The act of recovering data or a system from a backup.
rebuild
A process or result of rebuilding.
clarify
To make or become clear or bright by freeing from impurities or turbidity.
commit
The act of committing (e.g. a database transaction), making it a permanent change; such a change.
repair
The act of repairing something.
learn
A surname from Scottish Gaelic.
improve
To make (something) better; to increase the value or productivity (of something).
Boundaries and safety
Words that protect dignity.
consent
Voluntary agreement or permission.
space
A surname.
respectful
Marked or characterized by respect
private
Belonging or pertaining to an individual person, group of people, or entity that is not the state.
confidential
Kept, or meant to be kept, secret within a certain circle of persons; not intended to be known publicly
secure
Free from attack or danger; protected.
safe
Not in danger; out of harm's reach.
sensitive
Having the faculty of sensation; pertaining to the senses.
Best Use Cases
- Manager one-on-ones
- Customer support copy
- Personal messages
Key Takeaways
- Start with validation before solutions.
- Use concrete support words to avoid sounding performative.
- Combine empathy with boundaries when stakes are high.
Common Mistakes To Avoid
- Jumping directly into advice without acknowledging context.
- Using vague reassurance ("it will be fine") when facts are uncertain.
- Confusing empathy with agreement.
Micro Practice Drills
Prompt
Rewrite: "Sorry, that sucks."
Sample upgrade
I hear how frustrating this has been, and I appreciate you flagging it.
Prompt
Rewrite: "Calm down."
Sample upgrade
Let us take this one step at a time and resolve the immediate issue first.
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