Confessor

In medieval times, the laity often visited a confessor before major religious festivals.

Long before Edward I, the English had a King Edward who they considered a martyr and a King Edward who they considered a confessor.

Confessors provided the troubled Church with an alternative sort of authority based on their sufferings, particularly when arguments began about how and how much to forgive those Christians who had given way to imperial orders – the so-called ‘lapsed’.

Near-synonym: confessant

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