Unchoose

At the point where a goal is perceived as too easy to be worth investment of effort, effort is reduced as we “unchoose” the goal.

One glory of a family is you'd never choose your kin and can't unchoose your daddy's hazel eyes — no more than you could unchoose your hand.

In other words, if the depression is a survival mechanism chosen by the woman when she was a child, then it is within her power to unchoose depression and to heal.