Victimized

The women felt victimized.

I'm being victimized by all these boring sitcoms.

Abusers make their partners feel badly about themselves. Because they are isolated, people victimized by perspecticide begin to believe the negative descriptions of themselves and lose self-esteem.  Abusive partners create the expectations.

The abuser demands certain acts as proof of love and over time, the person being victimized gives in.  "I do it because I care for you, because I love you, because I want to protect you."

Trans boys and men are referred to by the anti-trans lobby as confused girls victimized by a shadowy industry, denying their agency and ignoring their own views on the matter.