You left me in despair.
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Despair
/dɪˈspɛə(ɹ)/
Synonyms for "despair" (130 found)
Ranked by relevance and common usage.
Closest matches (26)
abandonabandon hopeacediaaching heartagonyagony of mindanguishapathybalebecome suicidalbitternessblank despondencybleeding heartbroken heartbroodcave of despaircave of trophoniuscrushingdeath wishdejectedness
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Noun(4 words)
Adjective(1 words)
deep sadness
Strong matches (39)
depressiondepth of miserydesolationdespair ofdesperatenessdesperationdesponddespondencydespondentnessdisconsolatenessdiscouragementdisheartenmentdispiritednessdistressdown tripdowncastnessdownerdownheartednessdroopdrooping spirits
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Noun(9 words)
Verb(3 words)
Adjective(1 words)
Related words (65)
give up hopegive waygloomgloominessgriefheartacheheartlessnessheavy hearthit rock bottomhopelessnessinfelicitylanguishlose heartlose hopelow spiritslownesslowness of spiritmalaisemelancholiamelancholy
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miserablenessmiserymourningno exitno wayno way outoppressionpainpessimismplumb the depthsprostrationquitreach the depthsrelinquishrenounceresignresignationsadnessschmerzself-destructive urgesinksink into despairsinking heartslothslough of despondspiritlessnesssuicidal despairsurrendertaedium vitaetouch bottomweariness of lifewoeworrywretchednessyieldyield to despair
Noun(8 words)
Adjective(1 words)
Choosing the right synonym
- Closest matches in this entry: abandon, abandon hope, acedia, aching heart, agony.
- Sentence evidence is available for despair, so synonym choice can be checked against real usage rather than a flat word list.
- Ranking signals come from moby, derived_reverse, opengloss, wordnet, and related lexical sources.
Synonym selection checklist
- Match the part of speech before comparing meanings.
- Check whether the synonym changes intensity, formality, or emotional tone.
- Read the replacement inside the full sentence, not just beside "despair".
- Prefer the clearest word over the most unusual word when writing for speed or comprehension.
When not to replace "despair"
Keep "despair" when the sentence already sounds natural, when a synonym would add unintended emphasis, or when readers need the most familiar wording. A synonym should clarify or sharpen the message, not simply make the sentence look more varied.
If two options seem close, choose the one that best matches the audience and purpose of the sentence.
Replacement workflow
1. Preserve meaning
Choose a synonym only if it keeps the core idea of "despair" intact in the sentence you are editing.
2. Tune tone
Check whether the replacement sounds more formal, casual, emotional, technical, or forceful than the original word.
3. Re-read context
Read the full sentence after the swap. Keep the synonym only when the sentence becomes clearer or more precise.
Review note: Synonym lists are ranked with lexical data and reviewed for practical writing value. Use the comparison notes, sentence evidence, and source labels together; a high-ranking synonym can still be wrong when the audience, register, or grammar changes.
Final fit check
After choosing a replacement for "despair", read the sentence once for meaning and once for rhythm. The best synonym should feel natural in the full sentence, not only accurate in a word list.
If the synonym makes the sentence slower, vaguer, or more dramatic than intended, keep "despair" or choose a simpler alternative from the closest-match group.
Related word relations
OpenGloss and ConceptNet supply richer edges like generalizations, collocations, and derivations.
More general
10 entriesconditionemotional impactemotional stateexperiencefeelfeelingmental statenegative emotionpsychological effectstatus
More specific
8 entriesCollocations
11 entrieschronic despairdeep despairdespair aboutdespair atdespair overdespaired ofdespairing lookfall into despairin despairprofound despairutter despair
Inflections
3 entriesDerivations
1 entriesAntonyms
2 entriesSample sentences
16 total sentences available.
The leader gave up the plan in despair.
Source: tatoeba (29708)
The student gave himself up to despair.
Source: tatoeba (48905)
Jack resigned from his job in despair.
Source: tatoeba (53106)
Showing 4 of 16 available sentences.
Common questions
What are the closest synonyms for "despair"?
Closest matches include abandon, abandon hope, acedia, aching heart, agony.
How should I check whether a synonym fits "despair"?
Compare the replacement against real sentence context. This entry includes sample sentences so you can check tone, grammar, and meaning before swapping words.